How to make a woman climax is not something as complex as… let’s say driving to work. You know you have to start the engine, fasten your seat belt, make a few turns here and there, and you’ve reached your destination.
But what are the factors that contribute to a woman’s vaginal orgasm?
A study published in the Jurnal of Sexual Medicine shows there are four important factors contributing to a woman’s vaginal orgasm:
- early sex education
- concentration during intercourse
- duration of sex
- partner’s penis size
Sex Education
Turns out, according to the study, that women’s ability to reach vaginal orgasms is highly influenced by her early sexual education. By this, the study refers to the early adolescent years when a woman should learn to associate sex with stimulation of her vagina.
Most women discover that stimulating the clitoris sometimes by accident while exploring their body as teenagers. Turns out, it’s harder (and sometimes close to impossible) for a woman who has been experienced clitoris orgasms to achieve vaginal orgasms because she strongly associates climax with the clitoris.
Concentration during intercourse
Concentrating on vaginal stimulation helps women reach vaginal orgasms.
It’s trivial by now that foreplay has an immense importance to how a woman reaches orgasm. Not only that, but if done properly, a woman can easily have multiple orgasms.
Some women can develop and train their vaginal muscles so that they can reach orgasm just by contracting and releasing their vaginal muscles, without stimulating the clitoris.
Duration of sex
I think the title says it all. It’s no news that the longer you stimulate the erogenous areas (foreplay) and the longer the intercourse, the stronger the orgasm for her and for you.
Women may need a bit more attention and may require more foreplay, but if you’re patient enough, the result will make you feel like the best lover she’ll ever have and will probably be the case, even if you’re not very well endowed.
Penis length
Although your lover may say that penis length has nothing to do with it, believe me, it’s got everything to do with it. You can even do a test yourself: during foreplay, you can stimulate her vagina with your finger, maybe slide two fingers. Then, when you think you can penetrate, watch her reaction and you will see it gives her a greater deal of pleasure after you penetrated. Thus, size does matter.
And it’s simple physics, the bigger the penis, the larger the vaginal area it stimulates. Now, there is such thing as too big and, like in all other things on this Planet, there is a maximum.
The good news is that the minimum penis size is reachable by the great majority of male population.
The study also says that the very visual appearance may have an arousal effect on a woman. That is, if the penis is larger than average, this will psychologically create a proper environment for a woman to achieve orgasm.
Conclusion
I think that the stress is highly upon men, but a woman to achieve orgasms depends equally on the woman, as it does on the man. It’s true that size does matter (and there are remedies if this is an issue), but on the other hand the woman should not just sit back and expect to be satisfied.
